There are those friends that make us feel good about ourselves..that keep a good company and those that can be so annoying ..and make you feel insecure when you are around them.
Having done a lot of research and after an episodic year about my friendships i can help you analyse them and confront them :)
She really need to be in the center of the attention.She usually acts provocative and she can do anything to have every one's attention.
Talk to her...with love..tell her what you think and how she looks like
Let her know the impression she gives..and tell her she doesn't need to act like that.
She acts like she is your boyfriend.She judges everything about your life and she feels like she need to have a word on every aspect that's about you.She needs to be constantly with you,and she'll be extremely jealous if you go out with friends without inviting her.
Having done a lot of research and after an episodic year about my friendships i can help you analyse them and confront them :)
1. The "attention-is-all-I-need" friend
She really need to be in the center of the attention.She usually acts provocative and she can do anything to have every one's attention.
Why does she act like that?
- She feels insecure about herself
- She usually has low self esteem
- She needs all the attention to make her feel good about herself
How to confront her:
Talk to her...with love..tell her what you think and how she looks like
Let her know the impression she gives..and tell her she doesn't need to act like that.
2. The "i-belong-to-you-belong-to-me" friend
She acts like she is your boyfriend.She judges everything about your life and she feels like she need to have a word on every aspect that's about you.She needs to be constantly with you,and she'll be extremely jealous if you go out with friends without inviting her.
Why does she act like that?
- Mostly are people who are very possessive
- Can be an insecure person that needs to be clinging on you
- She is afraid of loneliness and been left alone
How to confront her:
You have to show her your limits..set you boundaries. Tell her that it's not necessary to be together all the time and that she suffocates you.Explain to her that she is being unreasonable in case she doesn't realise her own acts.
3.The "carbon-paper" friend
Well you decided to have your hair curled..so the next day she has the same style.You said its time to change your hair colour she does the same exact colour...and when you decide that it's time to buy a new coat oooh what a surprise she buys the same too!
Why does she act like that?
- She has an unformed character
- She doesn't know what she likes and she just keeps coping what you're doing because she thinks you are her role-model
- She usually doesn't think she is capable of deciding her own style.
How to confront her:
You have to tell her that this is annoying ..but make sure not to offend her.Use nice words and help her find who she is and what she wants.
4.The snake - friend
Why does she act like that?
- She has no kindness inside her and that means she is not ok with herself
- She is probably evil and she has nothing good to do to you
How to confront her:
If you really think she is your friend try talking with her...but my advise would be...."RUUN!...as far as you can"
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